The debate about the existence of the G-spot did not stop until recently, when one of the American scientists examined the body of an old woman and put an end to various hypotheses. He found that the desired erogenous zone is located on the upper wall of the vagina and feels like a nut to the touch. When this point is stimulated, the woman reaches orgasm in a short time with proper and continuous stimulation, the time is reduced to 10 seconds (rarely).
Unfortunately, the G spot has not been fully explored. Some questions remain unanswered: does every woman have one, and if so, can everyone orgasm from its stimulation?
How to start looking for the G spot
Your partner can look for the G spot, or you can find it yourself. To do this, you need to insert two or three fingers into the vagina, applying a special lubricant to them beforehand. After inserting the fingers into the vagina, they should be bent up to touch the upper wall.
Ways to stimulate the G spot
Insert the lubricated fingers into the vagina, lightly press the pubis with the other hand, the fingers inserted into the vagina should move up and down, you can focus on the clitoris for sharpness. You can do this without the help of a partner. You can also find the point yourself using a vibrator.
If your partner's penis naturally tilts slightly upwards, then you will have more positions that encourage stimulation, even the classic missionary is on the bill. Another simple and effective position is with the woman on top and the partners facing each other.
What is reactive orgasm?
When stimulating the G-spot, a girl can also experience a reactive orgasm. During such an orgasm, a specific liquid is released from the girl's vagina. In order to achieve such an orgasm, the partner must insert his lubricated fingers and move them up and down along the walls of the vagina, this must be done carefully so as not to cause pain. Before that, your partner should help you relax by massaging using massage oil. The girl should lie on her back with her knees bent.
During a reactive orgasm, there is an urge to urinate, but this sensation passes quickly and the desired pleasure comes. However, it is recommended that you go to the toilet before the procedure so that you feel confident.
If you did not experience any orgasm the first time, do not be discouraged, everything has its time. Sometimes girls get results after only 2 weeks of training. You just need to learn to relax and fully trust your partner.
Where is the G spot in women and how to find it? These interesting questions concern almost all modern people. Women want to receive indelible and incomparable sensations caused by the stimulation of this zone. Men want to please their partner and at the same time increase their self-esteem as a talented and experienced lover. In this article, we tried to describe in as much detail as possible where to look for this magic point.
The female G point is located on the front wall of the vagina, about 3-5 cm from its entrance. However, the dot location range is 1-10 cm. In addition, it is not always located in the center of the wall. Often the point is found on the right or left side.
Finding the G-spot is not so easy, but the result will pay off all your efforts. Most importantly, remember that in a calm state, the mysterious point is hardly noticeable and does not exceed the size of a pea. In a state of excitement, it swells, doubles in size and feels good. The point, or rather the zone, has a slightly rough surface and, in contrast to the smooth texture of the main part of the vagina, it somewhat resembles goosebumps or walnut shells.
So let's start looking for the magic point:
- Above all, make every effort to create strong excitement in your partner. Ideally, try to bring her to orgasm. The point is best explored before or immediately after the start.
- The most convenient for searching is the position where the partner lies on his back and his legs are wide apart. Gently insert two fingers into the vagina, feel the area under the pubic bone. At the same time, remember that the numerical statistics about the location of the G-spot are not axioms, and the precious zone may not be in exactly the same places for different women.
- In almost all the fair sex, this part of the vagina is characterized by a decrease in sensitivity. Therefore, in order to detect it, it is often necessary to press quite strongly and actively on the studied area. Ask the woman to suggest which direction to move.
- If you feel the urge to pee while looking for a partner, you're probably on the right track. Many women experience this reaction along with a feeling of discomfort when you press on the G spot. Do not worry, such feelings disappear quite quickly and are replaced by a feeling of increased excitement.
- The G spot looks like a small hard lump no bigger than a pea. Try to hold it with two fingers. Then begin to rhythmically squeeze and open the lumps, pressing and releasing, trying to move strongly and at the same time gently so as not to damage the sensitive vaginal mucosa.
Everyone around talks about the G-spot, but few talk about the other equally important erogenous zones of a woman. If you learn to arouse these points, orgasm will no longer escape from under your nose.
Erogenous zones in women
Many people have heard many times about the miraculous properties of the special G point on the female body, but not many people understand what is hidden behind this name, and very few people know about the existence of at least 3 more special points. stimulation will give the woman a particularly pleasant feeling. In women, the same erogenous zones are called points A, K, U, that is, the whole "female alphabet" consists of the abbreviation G-A-K-U.
Let's take a closer look at what these erogenous zones in a woman's body are, where they are, how to stimulate them, and what effect a woman will get from stimulation.
The G point is located on the front wall of the vagina, 4-5 centimeters deep from the entrance of the vagina. This is the sensitive area of the vagina with 600 nerve endings per square millimeter, 1. 5-2 cm in size, unlike other areas with no more than 30 nerve endings. That is, stimulation of this zone will bring 20 times more pleasure. In women, this erogenous zone can be easily stimulated with a finger or a small vibrator of suitable purpose and shape.
Where are the most erogenous zones in women?
Point A
Where is a woman's erogenous zone, called the A point? You can find this intimate spot in the front of the vagina, between the bladder and the cervix, it is a very sensitive area about 2-4 cm in size, like the G. With strong arousal, the tissues surrounding the uterus begin to contract strongly, and the male genital organ can penetrate almost 3 centimeters into her neck. In addition, this zone does not become overly sensitive after orgasm, which allows you to prolong the pleasure.
K point
Point K is located on the back wall of the vagina, and stimulation of this point is performed during anal sex, but with the condition that the wall between the rectum and the vagina is not too thick. Stimulation of this zone, unlike the previous two zones, does not give emotionally colored experiences, love and affection to the partner, but gives a particularly sharp and vivid orgasm.
U point
What other erogenous zones do women have? The U point is soft erectile tissue, more penetrated by nerve endings than the surrounding tissue. It can be found in the vestibule of the urethra. During the stimulation of the U point, a strong sexual desire and the desire to urinate at the same time occur. In this case, the effect affects not only the U-point, but also Skene's glands, which are located along the spongy body of the urethra, the so-called "prostate gland". These zones are individual for each woman and can be located at the exit of the urethra, in the middle of the canal or in the neck itself. Their location is an important factor for the sensitivity of the U point. During normal sexual intercourse, the U point is not affected, so it should be stimulated separately with circular movements of the finger. In women, simultaneous stimulation of the G and U points sometimes leads to the so-called "squirting" and multiple orgasms.
There is an opinion that the main male organ is the phallus. All erogenous zones are concentrated on it. In fact, in the body of any man there is another powerful sexual organ that actively participates in every sexual relationship. It refers to the prostate gland, or in other words, the prostate.
In a passion, few people remember the presence of the prostate. And completely in vain. Like the main male genital organ, it is very sensitive to stimulation. Some sexologists equate it with the female G point, because the powerful effect on the prostate is accompanied by unforgettable pleasure.
How to find this mysterious zone in the human body >
- Before you start looking for the precious spot on your partner's body, ask him to do some preparation. A man should ideally clean the intestines and empty the rectum with an enema, which will make the massage of such an intimate place more aesthetically appealing.
- Do everything you can to make your partner relax and trust you completely. Its internal uncertainty will cause the contraction of the sphincter and the complete failure of your sexual experience. Find out from the man if he really wants to be involved. Otherwise, instead of bright pleasure, he will feel only discomfort and pain.
- Be sure to trim your nails. If you have long nails, do not even try to look for the G-spot, because it is fraught with the appearance of microtrauma in the rectum of your loved one.
- Wash your hands thoroughly not only before, but also after searching for the precious point. Do not touch the male genitalia or genitals with the hand used for the search, preferably use disposable gloves. Thus, you will protect yourself from various microorganisms from the partner's colon, which can lead to the development of inflammatory processes.
- Do not start looking for the prostate at the beginning of intercourse. It is better to postpone the moment when you feel the inevitable onset of climax. Otherwise, you can simply ruin your partner's sexual mood and even make him uncomfortable.
- Give your man an erotic massage starting from the head and moving towards the stomach and back. Pay special attention to the hips. Massage your partner with soft and gentle movements.
- Let your man lie on his back. At this time you will position yourself between her legs and insert your finger very gently and carefully into her anus, not forgetting to use vaseline oil or a special lubricant. Go forward about 4-5 cm and try to feel a lump the size of a chestnut on the front wall of the intestine from the abdominal side.
- Alternatively, you can ask your partner to take a knee-elbow position or lie on your side, preferably on the right side, and press your knees firmly into your stomach. In addition to making your job easier, this position will allow the man to experience multiple orgasms. In this pose, the pelvic muscles are maximally relaxed.
A full sex life is a guarantee of good health, excellent mood, youth and family happiness. You need to know how to find the th point so that both partners can definitely enjoy intimacy.
Stimulation of erogenous zones allows both the man and his partner to achieve orgasm.
The fact that there is a special place - ji point, they began to talk about it in the middle of the last century. There is still no consensus on where the G spot is. Women usually have no problem determining its coordinates.
This place is located on the front wall of the vagina - from 3 cm to 5 cm from the entrance. What the erogenous epicenter itself looks like can be seen in a special video. There are also photos where a particular place looks like a small bean.
You don't need to study the video to recognize the Ji point. This place is quite palpable by tactile examination. If this area is stimulated, then there is a significant increase in size (several times in some women).
It is not difficult to find the erogenous point, for this you need to feel the front wall of the vagina. This area will be rougher and rougher, which is not typical for the rest of the mucosa.
The easiest way to find the G spot is when a woman is in a state of sexual arousal. This zone is less sensitive for any girl, so it should be additionally and actively stimulated. You can watch the video to master the practical methods of such stimulation.
When intercourse occurs, there is no stimulation of the g pole, so some women doubt the existence of such a place. Each of the girls is there individually. Therefore, it is necessary to choose one of the optimal postures to detect the presence of the ji microzone.
These include the following provisions:
- the partner is behind;
- the girl assumes a rider pose and leans back firmly.
Even a close study of a video or photo does not always help to find the answer, how to find the ji point? This does not mean that your sex life will be less effective.
Point ji is truly a unique place. However, for most women, the emotional rather than the physiological feelings of sex dominate. Some girls report that they do not enjoy stimulation of the erogenous g chakra at all.
For older women, the use of the g factor to achieve orgasm is less important. It should also be taken into account that, according to sexologists, the task of finding the supererogenous point is relevant only for women who cannot feel orgasm.
How to determine the coordinates of a partner's ji point?
If the problem of the location of the ji area in women can be solved by touch, the question of how to find the partner's g point is not difficult at all.
It's easier to find such a place in the male half, you don't even need a training video. An analogue of the Ji point is the prostate gland.
There is such an erogenous place near the urethra from the bottom of the bladder (it can be seen in the video). You need to use the anus to reach the man's "spot". In practice, it looks like this: the finger is gently inserted into the anus and a slight bulge is revealed on the side of the abdomen. This will be the g zone. It is located four to five centimeters from the entrance of the anus.
Not all men will like such unusual sexual activity of women. Some representatives of the stronger sex negatively evaluate women's attempts to find a place for erogenous stimulation.
Another important note: the partner should not have long, sharp nails. If he has found the location of the g zone, it is better to use a special lubricant for rubbing. All these actions should be done very carefully.
If partners decide to find a unique zone g, then it is advisable to use different methods. You can watch the exclusive video above.
By mutual consent, try to find the precious object called the "g-spot" by tactile examination. For some couples, the magic g makes intimate life richer and more vibrant.
Lovers who explore each other's bodies can have real pleasure!